Consider sending him the address of the abandoned house across the street or the old ladyn2 blocks down or a mail forwarding service or your grandma's house. if you do give him your address don't use your name and for the love of God don't tell anybody it's your address. Don't use your name and if the post man knocks and wants a signature say that it's not addressed to you and you don't know that person and couldn't accept mail on thier behalf because you don't know them. ( a common tactic is for a cop to dress up as the mail man and deli er it and as soon as you sign it they slap the cuffs on.) True the risk is fairly low, but the first time will be the last time if you don't protect your identity